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From the blog…

How to Help Someone Cope

How to Help Someone Cope

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Lessons from Two Years of Quasi-Quarantine

Lessons from Two Years of Quasi-Quarantine

Two years ago, cancer sent me into home quarantine, the way coronavirus has driven people into their houses all over the world. The transition was jarring and disruptive, but spending tons of time at home hasn't been all bad. Here are some of the things I've learned;...

Using Strengths to Deal Sanely with Coronavirus

Using Strengths to Deal Sanely with Coronavirus

Using no strengths -- like kindness or perspective -- to deal with frustration. My husband has just returned from the grocery store, where shelves were empty, people were tense and he waited in the checkout line for an hour. It’s stressful out there. As usual, I look...

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